Elayne Savage
Elayne Savage, PhD is The Queen of Rejection(TM) - communication coach, professional speaker and author of 'Don't Take It Personally!' and 'Breathing Room-Creating Space to Be Couple' (in 9 languages.) You'll find useful tips on dealing with rejection and not taking things so personally at http://www.QueenofRejection.com. http://www.QueenofRejction.com
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Someone looks at you 'funny' or speaks to you with 'that tone.'
And you start thinking: How dare she treat me that way. Who does she think she is? I don't deserve this.
You cringe. You feel yourself flushing. Anger starts creeping up. Wow, it doesn't take any time at all for her look to set you off. One minute you're ready to explode.
And you start thinking: How dare she treat me that way. Who does she think she is? I don't deserve this.
You cringe. You feel yourself flushing. Anger starts creeping up. Wow, it doesn't take any time at all for her look to set you off. One minute you're ready to explode.
Relationships can benefit from a good 'spring cleaning.' It gets rid of the clutter.
Why not toss out things you've been stockpiling? You could chuck misunderstandings. Hurl your hurt feelings. Donate anger and resentments.
Even small misunderstandings will lead to hurt feelings. Someone says or does something (or neglects to say or do it.
Why not toss out things you've been stockpiling? You could chuck misunderstandings. Hurl your hurt feelings. Donate anger and resentments.
Even small misunderstandings will lead to hurt feelings. Someone says or does something (or neglects to say or do it.